sahi kaha aapnebilkul sahi kaha hy... INSAAF pehli shart hy her cheez main... mard ko 4 shadion ki ijaazat di gai hy mager zaroori qaraar nai dia gia.. 1 successfull shadi b bandy ko utna he imaan wala banati hy jitni 4 waly ko bana sakti hein...
sab sy barhi misaal Hazoor-e-Akram (S.A.W.W.) ki hy.. jab tak Hazrat Khadija (R.A.) hayaat theen unhon ny doosari shadi nahi ki. or us ky baad jo bhi shadi ki us ky peechy koi na koi siyaasi ya deeni waja thi (siyaasi word in +ve sense like kisi doosary tribe sy sulaah karny ky liye etc.)
jahan tak baat hy shadi ky baad muhabbat ki.. tu chahy wo mard ho ya aurat mera tu khiyal hy ky yeh saraasar behakna he hy ky aap ki biwi / shohar hy phir b aap doosaron per nazar rakhy howy hein...
aajkal ka jesa muaashra hy doosari shadi ki bohat se doosari reasons hein un mein ek reason girls being WIFE khud bhi hain... mian biwi ka rishta aisa hy ky like dono ko ek doosary ky liye banaya gia hy... wives kaam kaaj mein bachon ko sanbhalny mein ghar daari mein or doosary bohat sy kaamon mein lag ker apny shohar ko tawajja daina kam kar daiti hein jis sy shohar frustrate hoty hein or tawajja or muhabbat ki khatir doosari jaghon per dekhna shuru ker dety hein.. shayad kuch log is cheez sy ikhtelaaf karain mager yeh meri personal observation hy ky kuch ghar sirf is waja sy toot jaaty hein ky biwian apny shohraon ko wo tawajja nahi deti jis ka woh khwahishmand hota hy -----